On Valentine's Day...

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Seeing it's coming up to Valentine's Day real soon and I haven't put up a post in awhile, I thought now was a great chance...

I was talking yesterday to a certain someone about all the reasons why I'm not a fan of it and why apart from giving one of my female friends a card every year, I have never celebrated it. Call me a cynic or whatever you like, but for me personally, the thought of having to give somebody a gift on a specific day just because everybody else is doing it, doesn't really appeal. I like spontaneity and gifts that are given just because. I was once given flowers a few years back, to apologise for something. It just put me off. I think I was more upset at them for giving me flowers to make up for it then I was over whatever they had done! Maybe I'm just weird, but hay, everybody's entitled to their opinion.

Business's love Valentine's Day because not only is it a huge marketing success, it gives them a chance to have a sale and promote their goods. In this aspect I like it, because working for a business myself, I will be exploiting it for all its worth! But for the people who fall for the advertising ploys every year, I have no sympathy at all. Prices go up (especially for things such as red roses), it's hard to get dinner reservations, and then you get some people (not all I might add) who see it as an excuse to be slack all year. This isn't a sexist comment, it's just something that I've noticed throughout my working years by colleagues.

It got me thinking though, what if we were to treat God the same way some people treat their partners on Valentine's Day? How would it make Him feel? It wouldn't be much of a relationship would it? Just paying Him attention and showering Him with gifts on one day of the year. But the more I thought about it, the more I wondered, maybe it IS how some of us view God and church. We come in on a Sunday once or maybe twice a week, give Him our half hour or so of lip service, think we've somehow paid our dues and then carry on the rest of the week hardly thinking about Him. Not all of us are like this obviously, but how many times do we fall into that trap?


The ultimate advertising guru, the devil spins us this lie that as long as we keep up appearances and just give God a little bit of our time when everyone else is doing it, that we're ok. Never mind, that without constant work, a relationship will fall to pieces. Without spontaneity and showing appreciation for each other on a regular basis, the partnership will soon become dry & boring. Without consistent communication that is extensive and thorough, hurts & grudges can accumulate, leaving it wide open for satan to come in and mess things up. Maybe I'm looking too far into things, but I was in a deep-thinking mood and this is what came out of it :)


So this year I won't be celebrating Valentine's Day, but I will be trying to make more time to spend with my Saviour and all the other important people in my life. Not for the sake of a day, but because they mean a lot to me and I don't want the relationships in my life to go stale and dry


14 comments:

Symon Burton said...

Well put, RK

Rachel Kate said...

Thanks :)

Rachel Kate said...

Loving your new name btw... You didn't get inspired at all by Rachel Kate did you ;)

jacksta said...

yes but...this will be an awesome valentines because you have one! I rememeber my first valentines, and it was awesome being publicly loved with a bunch of flowers in front of my class, even if it was on a specific day...What you do is you show so much appreciation and that encourages the male species to do it again, just because it pleased you so much. See it more as a spring board and milk it for all its worth. My two cents...

Rhys said...

Deffinatley agree there, along with fathers & mothers day (Dont get me wrong I think they deserve it but why only the one day for all parents).

P.S jase you off the hook mate I can hear a sigh of relief.

Rachel Kate said...

haha jase was actually semi-keen to celebrate it lol rhys :)

Rachel Kate said...

so true jacksta but i did have a valentine for 4years and never celebrated it either :) we made our own day on feb 15th which i thought was pretty cool

Rachel Kate said...

like i said, im probably a cynic but... thats ok with me :)

PaisleyJade said...

Love your thoughts "RK", but when you go without flowers for years and years (said with a sigh), it would be nice to see some on valentines day... even if they are really expensive and only done for the sake of it! Just kidding. So true about Sundays... every day should be 'Sunday'... just like very day should be valentines.

Jon Dylan said...

"...because working for a business myself, I will be exploiting it for all its worth" Hahaha, why is this making me laugh? Good post though.

Rachel Kate said...

lol at kristy... symz i think she's hinting... ;)

Symon Burton said...

In response to this post I'll think you'll find my latest blurb amusing ;-)

Rachel Kate said...

you're latest post was awesome! the heart at essence wasn't...

jacksta said...

So how was valentines day?

 
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